if you need to have a sexual dream- the bigger the better.
i have had hormonal problems relating to depression that made me very asexual.
i see an endocrinologist now and take meds for it.these meds moderate my hormones all that can be tested in my blood tests. i don't feel very sexual but i am much more sexual than i was. it's a good feeling. i mention this not to hijack the thread but to show others that it is possible to change sexually with help.
i am glad it is happening to you seeker and that you are confident enough to go with it. waking up is a beautiful thing.
-pi