My T never asked any questions. When I told him about the SI he barely acknowledged it. When I told him about being suicidal he gave me a card with a crisis hotline number on it and didn't say much else. I wouldn't expect him to freak out or anything, but he doesn't even seem interested.

earthmama - How wonderful that you are comfortable addressing your concerns with your T. There are a couple of reasons why it is scary to me - I'm afraid he might:
-- admit he really doesn't care.
-- think I'm criticizing him and get angry
-- decide not to work with me anymore and refer me to someone else.