Angel-
Because of your reply in the threads we've all participated in sorting out our own feelings and motives- what could be wrong with that? And because of the original post I have been posting more and taking part- even though my comments were philisophical and not seen as relevent and was at least verbal and coherent in formulating my thoughts-
so again nothing bad about that. Its what goes on in live support groups too- nothing earth-shaking, just a fair exchange of feelings where it doesnt appear to have caused anyone any harm here. Everybody allows each other to be vocal because our experiences in life were probably all suffered in silence and we werent allowed to protest and disagree and think our own thoughts. We're all chomping at the bit now to be expressive and so I thank the whole community and especially wantsto and angel for opening a dialogue and still containing themselves enough to let the talk proceed. I think we've all shown much maturity in how this was handled.