You know I just noticed something. I guess it means I am self-centered, hmmm. When I read stuff on here I almost always take it for what it is in front of me and respond purely to that. It does not occur to me to relate it to another thread. If I do suspect there is some quarrell happening I stay away. I do not like to get into he said she said here anymore then in my life. I choose to see each for their best and leave the rest alone. I have too much strife in my life as it is. I do not mean to slight or ignore, I just try to come from a here and now place when I am responding to the boards. I am not a cyber hugger so I will say peace to us all and let it begin with me.