Shadow,
I understand the problems, but the use of a zapper is WAY INAPPROPRIATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He must find a way to let you know you are switching that doesn't operate like a torture device or inhuman zapper. NO WAY!!!
He must wave a flag or some kind of signal that you can agree upon and you must tell your alters about - but there can be no misunderstanding or it will backfire and make things worse.
He needs to talk to you T and see if they can help you guys make some cooperation between you for everyone's sake.
SORRY, THIS WHOLE IDEA JUST WIGGS ME OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Leslie------>concerned for Shadow