Candybear,
I'm sorry your boss is clueless. Someday life will probably kick him severely and maybe then he'll have a clue about more of life.
In case your confidence gets delay - I'm sending you a bit of mine. I do feel you will be OK - one day at a time you will find your way through this maze and find your next direction for which way to go.
Having a depression is not shameful, its human. Be kind to yourself and take it as it comes and keep looking for all the support you can get.
You will get past this time and look back with gratitude at how far you have come. I'll pray for tomorrow to go well for you.
Leslie