Might trigger some people?...

My BF and I are so glad to have someone we can trust and feel safe with. We're starting to explore some new ground sexually and to share some of our "secrets" with each other. Turns out we're both %#@&#!-erotic...

This is NOT something I've had much experience with, and I wanna know what we're getting into. I don't want anyone to get hurt...and I want to have some fun. Instructions, maybe? Some sort of "how to" guide? He'd really like to be on the receiving end sometimes and I love the idea of driving... That sounds like we're going to need a toy. Any recommendations, suggestions?

I feel silly asking. I don't even know WHAT I'm asking. I just don't know anyone I CAN ask about this stuff. Figured maybe someone here can point me in the right direction?