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___Shadow___ said:So he thinks he will atatch a Zapper thingie to me, OMG i can't believe I'm saying thiss, k so he can give a ( not mean zap) gentle buzz or what ever if I start to switch,

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Hell NO!!!!
Just like those electroshock training collars they use on dogs? You are NOT an animal!!! I would NEVER "zap" my BF because he was switching! I wouldn't "zap" him for anything.

Nope. No, no, no, no, no.

I like the idea of putting the zappy-thing on HIM and letting Angry You use it for a while. Bet he changes his mind then!
Just because you make him "look bad"?
I'm sorry your H is being such an *****. He may be a great guy other times, but this is just acting like an *****. Stuff like this makes me mad...I used to date a guy who would just tie me to the couch when I was raging or suicidal. He said he was trying to help but it was still mean.

OK, maybe some sort of signal could be helpful, but not anything that physically harms you. Something you could hear might work because then you wouldn't have to be looking at him (like for flags or other visual stuff). Maybe like a whistle?
On one level I can understand what he's thinking - maybe it would help if you could get clued in to the switching? But I'm pretty sure there are less traumatic ways to make that happen!!