I feel like if i did someting wrong a while ago, no matter what i do, the person or people i wronged will never forgive .... and it wasn't only me at the time, in fact it was both of us that were wrong .....

sometimes i feel like i am in the wrong and others tell me 'actually it wasn't all your fault' .... then i feel i have been manipulated, it hurts when people dont forgive .... especially when i didn't mean any harm in the first place .....

why do i let it bother me? Because the people involved are supposed to be into peace and forgiveness and love .....

do these people know how much they hurt by carrying this grudge on and on ??????

this is in real life btw ...... no one here ....... why do people say they are into all this if they blatently don't mean it

Maybe they have big issues themselves but would rather put the blame on people they know are vulnerable .... this is bullying IMHO

i know people here will say avoid these peole, but that's easier said than done ....

vent over, Jinny xx