Gosh, this is like using a hammer to swat a fly....very inappropriate and harmful too I might add on so many levels! I won't even go into how I really feel about it.....oi vey.
If you need a clue as to when you are switching....come up with a special code word.....one that is gentle or funny. Make up a word that only you and your H will understand...your own little language. See how that works for you
Please take good care (((((((((((((( Shadow )))))))))))))))).

sabby