dawntreader, is there a way for them to know the nick you're using? if it's a common nick, you might want to change it so ppl won't know it's you. that will keep you pretty anonymous.
as to checking the posts. yes, i will do that. i'm sure the other mods will too. if something's too much information, i'll clean it up a bit, k? that was a worry for me too.
i won't remove the post, just clean it up if necessary. i appreciate your concern there as children do come here

that's very kind of you
kd