I understand that horrible feeling. Sometimes we have to hit bottom in order to wake ourselves up into making changes we really never made that got us to that point in the first place. It isn't an easy place to be, knowing that we have to make changes in our life either. I know many people who have lost everything, made it again, lost it again, & made it all over again. Some things had to do with bad investments......others, like my husband's problem was credit card spending & irresponsible spending.....that was the main reason I have left him because I could no longer live around that behavior & enable his wrong thinking anymore.

When we get to the bottom, then we have to analyze where we are & set up a system to get ourselves back functioning again......the analysis part takes some time & a solution will always present itself if we are open to seeing it. The trick is being that survivor that we all have inside of us.

You can do it.....change what needs to be changed & keep the things that were good & you will find your way back to a successful life. For me, I had to add another aspect to my life....my religion had to come first in my life now, but that is a personal decision that I needed to make for me.
You are in my thoughts,
Debbie