oh hon I am rooting for you. if being there is really hard for him to stay clean then by all means move away as soon as you can. who is to say it is too soon? my hubby and I met in doc john's old chatroom. after about 3 months of talking to him online I moved from Ga to Kansas site unseen basically and moved in with him. that honey was 11.5 yrs ago. so who can say if it is right or not? you never know!