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desertnurse1977 said:

she keeps saying 'we have to decide to dig in both our heals and make this work, or decide to walk away' - BUT the more i dig my heals in the more it seems that i have to prepare myself to be hurt again, and it seems that events are getting closer together rather than farther apart. i now function in 'damage control mode' almost 24/7 in anticipation of the next event.

and by writing all of this it seems that i am almost answering my own questions.


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Is SHE digging her heels in or, is it just you? "Damage control mode". Totally understand that ...LOL.....it's no way to live hon, you gotta take care of you.