((((((((((( freewill )))))))))))))
If you had a loved one outside of your system who was ill and made bad choices in the same realm, would you find it in you to forgive them as well as offer them validation, acceptance, love and compassion? Would you be able to realize and consider that this loved one needed assistance and would you do whatever you could to help them experience that which would help them in turn learn to make better and safer choices for themselves?
If the answer is yes, could you turn that same forgiveness, validation, acceptance, love and compassion inside?
You are a loving soul....you are a wonderful woman.....you deserve to give to yourself and your system that which you share with others in your life.
Much love & respect

sabby