KD

I hope your cousin will be able to return home to her family. You were fortunate to have found someone with a heart to care for your cousin enough to allow her to return to her family. NO ONE should have to go out like that.

Tomorrow is the anniversary of my father's death in 1991. He was allowed to die in his own bed in his own home (my home). He died peacefully.

Seven days later, out of the blue mom says she had a dream dad was coming for her and that she was dying. I didn't believe her, her doc was fed up with her, so we decided it was best to place her in the hospital for observation - to get her away from this house that she shared with my father. I knew it bothered her we were planning to sell the house and ship her down to TX to live with my sister. She was afraid of the TX bugs.

She died within 24 hours - tied to a bed in leather restraints with hospital staff screaming at her to behave. She just wanted to go home. She was afraid of that hospital too - so am I now.