(((Lmo)))

From reading your post, I don't think your boyfriend is a slacker, or even mooching off of his girlfriend (you), at least intentionally.

Sometimes, people just fall in a rut - something that can happen so easily and fast they are there before they even know it. And the falling in is much easier than climbing out.

I think you must be a very sweet person and hope you will continue to be his rock, and that the two of us will find a way to help him. (hey, I'm even trying to group all of alike things together now - <pats self on back>.

I think, his problem isn't one of intelligence, or even of pride, or of slacking, but one of being lost, overwhelmed, of fear itself?

Lot's of luck to you both sweetie. I wish I could say or do more, but that would be above my qualifications and knowledge.

Yours,
Sam