((wisewoman)) being a part of these forums has made me realize that i'm not alone. and it's kinda wierd, but I really have been dealing with my issues "with myself" and not with others, and isn't that the best way to deal with the deep down personal problems, I mean for me anyway. I never realized until 30 mins ago when I wrote that post just how much the forums have helped. And it's because I'm part of a group who reach out in different ways, a group who is hurting in some way, and that's why I feel a part of it. i'm now accepting all the flaws, all the arguments etc, with open arms, because we all reach out in different ways. and i think each and everyone of us "totally rock" in some way or another =)

love,
rayna