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Kaika said:
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What hurts me the most is when people don't litsen to me, no matter how many times I try to tell them something, instead of litsening they just either ignore me or keep on interupting to make assumptions about my beliefs or re-inforce their own opinion, and thus rejecting mine.</font>

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And that does hurt...It is impossible to feel invisible.

But if I may Kaika,,,often the loudest voice has the least to say but his need to be heard so engulfs him,,he will say anything over anybody to impose his thoughts...

Often,,he has felt what you do,,,invisibility. So he has resorted to power to instill his effect upon his world.. Some of the most destructive political dictators in our history have been the weakest of men...but they found a way to be heard and they became addicted to the power it gave them...

When you encounter folks who talk over you or seem to ignore you when you are talking try a simple trick...

Whisper....

Whispers evoke secrets,,and everyone wants to hear a secret...

They will listen.

With care,

Lenny