If it helps.... and it may not.... I am meeting my former t from several years ago for coffee today and the place we were going to wouldn't have been open. so i called to tell her, left a message last night at 10. This morning at 8:30, still no word, no call, no email.... So i called and she sounded guarded like she didn't know why i was calling. I asked if she had gotten my message and she said no.
So even ex -t's don't always get the message either.
=( Hope you are ok!