If a friend came to you Jesse with this situation what would you advise them?

Would you tell them to pull out every stop,,make a pain of themselves by being there at every turn and nearly harassing their SO with appolgies, promises and loving anecdotes?

Or would you ask them to go to a movie with you or a ballgame and let their SO have the space they need to make the decisions they need to make?

Be your own friend and hers too...she has to find her own way...

With care,

Lenny