W2H - I literally can't watch TV/movies because I just slip away while my body is sitting there. My husband hates it, because I'm constantly asking "who is that? what's going on?" lol
As for T, yeah, it's REALLY hard to be present and hear what he says. I'm getting better at it. He told me that he can tell when I'm not really tuned in, and so then he tries to get my attention.
He has started writing little notes for me to take home if it's something he really wants me to hang on to. That's been helpful. I have all these little yellow post it notes everywhere now with T's words on them

I wonder if T could write some for you, Pegasus??