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Sometimes I get scared when I see people who are therapists asking questions like that because they should know that is wrong and not have to have people who are clients and vulnerable answer them

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I think that people who announce that they are therapists in posts should be careful about what they post because some of us have a hard enough time trusting our therapist to help us and seeing posts that make them seem as if they are not following their own teaching

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I am glad someone mentioned this. I've been thinking about this thread all evening and I agree with what you have said. If a person makes it known they are a therapist and is employed, I think they need to be careful as to what they say.

Trusting a T to know what they are doing is oh so important to me. Yes, I know therapists are people too and they have problems just like the rest of us folks. A real "trust" issue surfaced with this thread when it comes to Ts. But then it is also good seeing a T can be vulnerable and not always know the answers.. Just for me and I am just a small part of the folks here, it is oh so very important, should I ever try therapy again, to know the T has his/her feel more grounded than me.

I am not trying to be disrespectful of the original poster. Just seems a little concerned, because I want to believe that a T that I "might" see knows for sure what they are doing and not playing with my head or just wanting the $ or even more messed up than what I might be,, shrugs shoulders

(To answer the question if any of my Ts ever kissed me on the lips, I would have to say NO... But I can say a T blurted out that we could never have sex together and I was shocked, hurt and angry that he would even think I would want to have sex with him. And believe it or not, he knew I had issues with sex and had problems with being "touched" in any manner. Being a friendly touch or a romantic touch. What an ego he had to have even said such an awful thing to me. Only shows to me he either had an inflated ego or he didn't know what he was doing/ Although, he eagerly collected my cash weekly....... shudders at how stupid i was