Yeah well she replied, but wish she hadn't. She lied, one of the things she said is "yes it is a long time but [b]we]/b] are getting through it, why she say WE????its not we is it, its me. Perhaps she thinks I'm some 3yr old that believes crap like "we"..perhaps its some fantasy in my mind anyways and nothing to do with missing her...then why the %#@&#! bothter going to therapy, she shouldnt have lied, she should have just said "your getting through it" dont %#@&#! lie!!...I just dont want to be alone unyet I'm not physicall alone, I've got a great hubby and kids but my psyche is alone and I can't make it feel not alone...and she said WE!,...well %#@&#! her!