i think that everyone here said such reasonable things and i especially like what Ryan said. this person is doing this because of a defect in him.......not you....he's trying to fill an empty space and this is what he knows. on the other hand, i've posted to you before and i've been so impressed with the way you see life. please re-consider and do not fight him. your job and your self-respect are too important. always remember self-respect..you won't have it, if you fight him.....xoxo pat