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I've never done group therapy, so I don't really know what the "protocol" is when something like that happens in group. I do know that if someone said something like that to me, I would feel really hurt and I wouldn't want to go back.

I suppose you could look at it from the point of view that the other group member is obviously a sick person and is taking it out on you - and that what she said has nothing to do with you - it has only to do with her. I think I could get that intellectually, but it's harder in practice.

I do agree with Sky - talk to your T before you drop out of anything.