Pegasus makes some good points Judy...and I too am sorry for your circumstances but so very happy you found us...

I think it is critical to understand what the limitations of internet support are and when to use that support. IRL therapy with a professional who can look you in the eyes, hear your voice and have a far more comprehensive understanding of your life and circumstances is irreplaceable.

I guess one serious problem could be in thinking that this was enough.

IMHO.

lenny