This is a new member, who we cannot vouch for and who is edited for relaying an act of aggression on a female.

This is a real crime or it is not.
Regardless, why is PC a place for such a test? Or having discussions about these circumstances with an offender/personna?

Why deal with a relationship where one has been sexually violated, from the perspective of the violator?

It is awful and practically impossible to go from victim of a painful sexual violation - or rape - to being a friend.

Many wives after years of marriage divorce their husbands over rape in their bedroom. It destroys families. Date rapes traumatize women for years.

It destroys the relationship and harms the individual.

Irreparable harm.

I am surprised a conversation of this topic has gone on in this special place as there are forums on the www for those to discuss their violating others in this manner - where the correct information is given to them.

This is a place to assist others who are healing in their hearts and minds, and many here have suffered violations like this one.

I am having a difficult time understanding why this has a place here.

Nightbird