(((((((((((((((earthmama))))))))))))))))
Rmemeber, it IS all you... in different facets.
SO it is all stored in there. You can always ask the other parts what happened. Mine now tell me freely or press their experiences in to my mind so i know how things went for them - slowly in this way, the experiences become "ours".
This ends up for me as "reliving" the t session or appointment with md or whatever... and i am learning even with scary things, that when ppl tell me "it's over now - put it behind you", i can't because the other parts who were also present need to process in their own time.
Does this help at all?
The more we try to hold all the pieces, the more I think they slip through our fingers. But if we can let them be, they will mold their own form in the righ time.

kiya