Sweetie, I'm sorry that your visit home isn't turning out well and that your father puts so much pressure on you. Have you told him how he makes you feel? I certainly know how difficult that can be. Is he an understanding man? If he is and you haven't already talked to him about these issues, I highly recommend that you do. And even if he isn't, it might still be a good idea if can do it. And if you can't, don't feel bad. I had a very difficult setting boundaries with my father. Well, at first I did. He suprised me and made it easy. Whatever you decide, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you can find some time to enjoy your dad. Take care hun.

Ry