TM,

Your first responsibility is to your wife and the mother of your children. You are risking everything for someone who is in self-destruct mode. You can pray for this woman and ask God to help her, but if you go and try to be her rescuer you will hurt and lose the woman you are married to and that would be very wrong. This is why it is so important to not get involved with people outside of your marriage, it usually ends badly.

I understand why you feel pulled to want to go to this woman but I think it would be a huge mistake for everyone. Respectfully,

Leslie