HI
I ve been going out with a guy for about 6 months, its not very serious but I see him 2-3 times per week and we have been intimate. I am 39, divorced, he is 44 and also divorced. I know for a fact that he uses online dating sites and I have told him that I am not happy with this and I feel like I am just filling a gap for him until something better comes along. However, he continues to use them even though he has told me he took his profile off. I don't really want to confront him yet again because then it looks like I am the one with the problem and have been snooping (which I admit, i have!). Bottom line is that I don't 100% trust him with my heart. I have feelings for him and he says he really likes being with me (i do believe this bit). There are other things that spell 'not right' too - he NEVER calls me (always text/email), he hasn't introduced me to his friends or family and I feel that the relationship isn't moving forward at all and often wonder if he is using me for sex or until the real thing comes along. Other peoples viewpoints on all of this would be appreciated because this is eating away at me and consuming all of my thoughts. Does anyone think that I am being over-anxious because thats how he will make me feel if I was to confront him. Thank you.