The reason you don't want to talk about it

is it too hard to put the feelings into words
or
the words to express your feelings just don't exist

I don't know if that make sense to you. As a frog of little brain I know exactly what I mean.
I know there I times when I talk with my T and we don't get much past head shaking with an occasional uh ah, um, weeeeel, no. Other times the words come but they aren't the right ones. Either way I end up going no where.