Dear Melpomene,

Your dreams and fantasies, are not, unusual by any means. Almost, every woman I have ever known, reasonably well, has related such thoughts and dreams to me. Many of them acted on their fantasies, many of them didn't. In most cases, their same sex activity was ancillary, i.e., they were primary heterosexual. They were, as you describe yourself. Who you engage sexually, is a choice, nothing more, a manifestation of your preference, at the moment.

Larry