well i told him and he seemed a little upset about it. but then yeserday he told me that he has a date on friday and that hes done "waiting" for me but it wasnt hateful. i understand why he would be and, honestly, i thought it felt a little awkward between us the few times we went out. so we talked quite a bit and we mutally decided that were better as friends and that its not worth possibly losing our friendship because of non-returned feelings. so everything worked out

thanks again for your help.