Kendyll,

Sorry, can't relate to my alts doing stuff like that. My spouse will not accept the diagnosis of DID and I finally realized all my alts were doing their best to suppress their lives and reactions to keep Phil from seeing any of us. This was, of course, messing up our work with our T. I love my spouse, but he's a complete jerk about this because his world view doesn't include the idea that satanic worshippers might use children in ways that would break them down and cause them to split off inside. My dependence on my husband for physical support has caused us to try to not reveal our real life to him and been a huge problem for us. I can't imagine what it would be like to be believed and be able to be all of ourselves in his presence. I'm sure it is hard sometimes, but it is also so free. I sort of envy you a bit.

I hope you guys can reassure Jonathan and get them to work together. Jonathan's life matters as much as anyone elses and eventually there will be problems if they don't work this out. I wish you guys all the best.

Leslie and the Pixies