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Old Sep 03, 2008, 06:52 PM
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Thanks for posting that Suzy. I knew I saw it somewhere that relationships outside the group were frowned upon. I did not ask my therapist specifically about this but I will ask her when I can. If nothing else, I can get her views on it. I'm new at my group also (I think this will be my 6th week too) and I've found it very helpful already. We have a mix of diagnoses in our group too but it doesn't seem to be an issue. We all benefit from the skills we are learning. I hope too that you will make strides in gaining stability with group and medication (that's how I'm doing it).
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"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real."

"Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit.

"Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt."

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