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I think this is a huge step in therapy. They trust you now to be able to deal with their pain. It's painful, terrifying, and a shite load of very hard work. But I think that we are strong enough to deal with the memories and feelings when they are brought to us or they wouldn't bring them to us. Ya still with me? We have to grieve and morn these memories, because they have been stashed away for so long. This is the most painful part of the healing. It's hard to deal with all of the emotions, We are a master at putting them aside for later. Don't get down on herself for feeling. Scream and cry and kick the pillows. Just know that it's OK. What happened it the past is something to be pissed off about and angry. Plus sad and hurt. It's never bad to have feelings. Having feeling shows that you are becoming a whole person, because everyone has feelings. I know that these are just words and that it doesn't change any of the pain you are feeling. But I Love you and I'm here holding your hand. You are strong and you can do this. You deserve to heal. Baby yourself. Care about you. You are a great person who deserves to be cared for and loved. Love you((((((((((((((((((KD ))))))))))))))) Monty