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Originally Posted by I_miss_my_kitty
I'm still not sure if I am asexual. I am still a virgin. I have no interest in sex whatsoever. I see sex as something disgusting and I have no intention in getting involved in it. My best friend suggested that I might be asexual so i'm still trying to figure myself out.
Does anyone have any thoughts on asexuality?
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Yeah-- I used to think i was asexual. Completely felt like you did. Tried to force myself to do a lot of stuff with guys to convince myself I could do it. But hated every second of it. Found it disgusting....then I realized....
It's because I am a lesbian. I'd been repressing thoughts of being gay my entire life. I can even remember times when the words "am I a lesbian" ran through my mind and I'd instantly think "heck no, that is sick and disgusting no way that could be the case..." well... it IS the case and it's not so bad! And, I'm most definitely NOT asexual.
That was the case with me. May not be the case with you but could be possible. Also, as someone else posted before, don't rush! You may not have found the right person yet... very, very true no matter what your orientation.
Good luck.