Nooooooooo... I would not have asked.

If itz natural for ppl to ask this question, we hav a lot of education to do. Let'z call it political correctness not to ask, then.

We're told not to ask about a person's heritage if they "look" like they are "different." We're told not to ask about a person's "accent." We're told not to ask about an illness, or an injury, or a deformity. Let's throw that one in about "Did you kill anybody?"

We can call it curiosity if we want, but I think anyone with common sense would know not to ask.... I think I would come back to the word "stupidity." (not to argue with you, just to let you see what goes through my mind)...sorry - thanks for giving me your thoughts on this too.

[quote=xander1100;802802]before you served, would you have asked someone who was in a war that question?