My heartfelt thanks to all of you. There's a little bit of me in every one of your posts.

Have any of you tried to disarm that trigger so that stuff doesn't bother you as badly? If so, what have you done?

What I've done is read up on scizophrenia and BPD just so that I KNOW. It wasn't me that could have possibly caused the BPD in my daughter. She was very sensitive, yes, and I had to explain a lot of things to her to get her through difficult situations. The sperm donor was the one that told her the same thing he would tell me "You have no right to feel that way... that's stupid!" There were other similar abuses but I won't get into them now. I think I said enough in my first post. :icon_redface:

Thank you all, too, for reading through so much. I don't usually make posts so long. But I really want to work through this if at all possible.