Internettie, how very, very scary. You were amazing. I am so glad you had the support of the two therapists. (I hope they learned something about admitting people to group therapy who are not ready for it.)

I can't believe that person came back to group to eavesdrop even though she had been kicked out! I am really glad the therapists escorted everyone to their cars. This woman sounds really volatile--no telling what she would do. If it were me, I would not feel safe unless the group therapy location and time were changed. If these remain the same, this woman can show up every week to harass people as they arrive and leave, perhaps even follow them home, identify their cars, slash tires, etc. I don't think these worries are exaggerated--she sounds very unpredictable and volatile. I hope the therapist will change the day/time and location.