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Originally Posted by Mouse_
I have this problem with "belonging", I mean even belonging here. Its a daily struggle not to just walk away.
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Mouse, I hope you won't walk away from here. I learn a lot from your posts and feel you belong.
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Originally Posted by Mouse_
Oh my god, perhaps my birth mother struggled with these same thoughts? Perhaps thats why she "ran"? dam and ****, I'm gonna have to do this better then her aren't I?
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Yes, you don't have to be what your parents were! This has been a big motivator for me in how I raised my children. For example, my mother never once told me she loved me. With my own kids, I have made sure I tell them frequently that I love them and that my actions are in synch with that. These behaviors of mine stem directly from the opposite behavior of my mother. Let this be a motivator for you on how not to be. Use it!
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