I know its hard rio..not wanting to hurt anyones feelings..I too, will often take the heat by letting others continue on with their illusions.

But honesty is truly the ultimate gift anyone can give another,,even if it hurts.

It's greatest offering is time,,with Truth we can make choices that can save us much time,,our illusions keep us stuck..

Tell him how you feel. He will then be able to seek another.

IMHO.

Lenny