I think I kind of understand what you are saying. This might be on the same topic as you or something different, but I'll just say it anyways and hope you understand, haha.

Sometimes I feel like other people rely on others to make them happy. They depend on a lover to make them feel like a whole person. Parents feel inadequate so they try to live their dreams out on their children, they expect them to do great things, things they think are important. I kind of lost my train of thought because my mother just called me.... oh well.