not tryin to be rude or not sound understanding but i do get what you mean about the weight issue but that's a FIXABLE issue. i mean people have so many other problems, like deformities & such that arent. they are born with it & it sometimes takes major reconstructive surgery to fix it & guess what if you're poor; then you're pretty much ****ed. but if you're overweight, i mean seriously work-out or try to loose the weight instead of complaining. im sorry im just in total ***** mode right now, i guess what im trying to say is dont get mad over fixable issues; fix them. i know it's hard to lose weight; i've done everything possible to do so but i found that my weight is a non-issue because i have un-fixable problems that are killing me! that's all; im sorry if i offended you. i just wanted to give you a little bit of reality. i've seen too many people suffer with un-fixable tragedies to come across this.