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Old Sep 06, 2008, 01:21 AM
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Thanks chaotic, MissCharlotte, ktgirl, earthmama, and Sannah.
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I need to find and surround myself with more people who can handle when a miscommunication occurs. More people who avoid yelling, belittling, and giving the silent treatment, or using comments I said out of context as mini attacks and flash points.
Chaotic, I am struck that the sort of person you want to be around more is largely defined negatively: "I want someone who will not do X, Y, and Z, etc." A mannequin could provide that for you. What positive things do you want from these people?

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Isn't it amazing to reconnect?
Yes, MissCharlotte, it totally is. I am still feeling very connected. It is a real tonic.

T and I still have not been able to set a session for next week after he emailed me he couldn't make our appointment time. We've had another exchange of emails and haven't found a common time. So I proposed we move on to the week after to try to find a time that will work. Looks like it might be another one of those 18 day breaks. Oh, well. I'll just try to hold onto this connectedness....
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