Kyndall,

I saw what you printed below your last post. I know that most of the time when you post here it is about being there for Jon and alts. Do you have anyone who is there for you in a supportive way??? It really seems to me that part of you is wishing you could be supported and wishing that you had been supported when things were so hard for you.

If you are going to be support for Jon, long-term, you need to think about getting some help for yourself. We multiples are complex, intense and wounded people. It honestly takes a team effort to help someone who is DID without getting burned out or drained dry.

I am speaking from personal experience. I know that my healing journey at times has been even harder because my support was not very ample to the needs. I also had to learn to not burn my supporters out by being too needy or too time/labor intensive.

When one person is badly hurt, attention goes to that person and the healthy person steps aside to allow the wounded person to be helped. However, when the care for the hurt member is long-term, the healthy member needs to find a way to keep their own personal tank filled.

So, please take good care of yourself, for yourself and for Jon and Co.

Leslie and the Pixies