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Sep 06, 2008, 10:04 AM
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Where can i start ...... firstly, i hear you, loud and clear. You were hurt beyond belief in many ways..... emotionally, sexually, physically ......
None of that was YOUR FAULT non of it ..... and for your mother to know .... sweetie i know that feeling ...... my mother never believed me ..... she helped ......... and was in complete denial.
Ihave 2 children. Somedays, i wonder wether i should haave had any, simply because i was never shown much love, i have so many issues .....
You and i have suffered, we both had children. We have made mistakes, maybe many i know i have .... and yes i have put someof my problems onto them, ive done things wrong ...... i've made wong choices...... but i've done my very best, loved them, protected them and at times spoiled them. We have LOVED AND PROTECTED THEM and let them KNOW what love, respect and care is all about.
Freewill we have done enough..... so that they have become adults knowing right and wrong.... they make ther own choices, wether they be right or wrong and learn from their mistakes .... so never NEVER call YOURSELF a failure ..... please, it breaks my heart to hear an abuse survivor say this ......... you are andnever have been a failure ..... it is THE ONES THAT WRONGED YOU who are the failures .........
love you my friend, Kerry xoxoxoxoxoxoxo  
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