I taught this article to my girls at work. We had a good discussion, and they said that they appreciated it, and I came away from it understanding it much better also. I'm definitely "the loser" most of the time. And I need to improve my self-esteem, but I'm stuck. Although I know I need to, I can't convince myself or the people who really know me that I want to change or will really try. I don't feel like I deserve it.